Tuesday, June 18, 2013

My Best Friend

Today my husband and I have been married for twelve years and I can honestly say I am married to my best friend. For those of you who know us, you know this isn't just a story of longevity and happily ever after. We aren't the "childhood friends who grew up and got married" kind of best friends. 

No that isn't our story.

Ours is a story of passionate pursuit, perseverance, and persistence. A story of brokeness and of depth of experiences, refusing to give up and finding joy in the midst of it all. It is a journey that grows more deeply and richly and continues on, flowing like a river - sometimes gentle and sunny and sweet and I can lie back in it, feeling the gentleness of it and the warmth on my skin; while other times it has been tumultuous and wild and risky and exuberant and I've had to hang on with everything I've got - not teenaged trashy movie, melodrama for the sake of a good conflict in the storyline of boy meets girl/loses girl/wins girl back; but truly a story of redemption. Coming to the cross and looking up to find the love that heals and makes whole and restores and rebuilds and repairs and renews.

It is this story that has made him my best friend. The realness and the rawness. Beauty from ashes. As the card he left by the coffee pot this morning reads "life isn't perfect, but love doesn't care." I eagerly await the next imperfect twelve years with you Larry Neubauer. I love you, my best friend. 


  1. What a lovely testament to your love! Congratulations on your anniversary!

  2. What a beautiful post. I completely get it. Completely. It's what I have (and have had) with my man. I LOVE the quote from the card!

    Here's wishing you and yours a most splendidly Happy Anniversary with much, much love and happiness to come.

    1. So glad to hear it - thanks for posting and for your well wishes!

  3. Here is to the next dozen happy years!

  4. Real real love, a real story of friendship, flawed and blessed. Wishing you many more full of joy~